(1)Hello, I’m a mother of two sons and daughters in her 20s. Our
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(2)I want to know if it’s someone’s fault, so I’m posting this.
(3)My husband’s father, my father-in-law, is a man of independence. My father-in-law sent me to the military because he’s so stubborn that I can’t have a military exemption in my family. My husband was resentful at first, but now he understands that it was a valuable experience.
(4)Maybe that’s why my husband almost forced me to join the army to take my son out as a man of merit. He almost cried and begged me not to go, saying that even if he resented it when he went, he would appreciate it as a valuable experience for a man to do once he came back.
(5)On the day he joined the army, my husband and I offered to give him a ride to the training center in the morning, but he went out alone at dawn and took the train to join the army. I didn’t write a single line about my parents at the training center, and I went to see them on the day of the completion ceremony, and they didn’t say a word.
(6)He’s just sulking for a long time. Put a sergeant on, sergeant on, and it’ll be released when it’s easier. He still does that. But he can use his phone with a sergeant on it, but he never contacted me. He ignored me even if I sent it, didn’t reply once, and he almost went out and came back to sleep at night.It’s the day I was discharged, and my son is here. My son just said he was tired and said he’d go to sleep.
(7)So I thought it was because I woke up in the morning, and my son’s clothes and books were all gone, and I didn’t have two suitcases at home, so I packed up and left. The number was changed, and I remembered that I knew a number of my son’s friends in high school, so I called him and asked him if he would have given me the changed number. So I called my son’s number. At first, I begged him to hang up as soon as I got it, so I asked him to talk to me for a while.
(8)I asked her where she’s staying, and she said she got a one-room rent. When I was in the military, I saved all my money without using my salary, and I paid a deposit with the money I collected from my part-time job before going to the military, and the contract was made in real estate when I came out on my last vacation. “I have until the 3rd grade and I have 4th grade left in the military, but I have time until I return to school, so I will work part-time, pay tuition using national scholarships, graduate, and get a job on my own, so let’s quit the year.”
(9)When I asked him, “Is it so unfair that everyone else went to the army? What can I do for him to come back home?”, his son was angry and said, “If there was no way I wouldn’t have gone, I would have just gone.” I might not go, but I think I’m going crazy because it’s so unfair that I spent nearly a year and a half there. My friends all told me that it’s right not to go if I can’t take it out. Every time I wake up at 2 a.m. and go to work for 2 hours, I don’t even know why I’m doing this 12 times a day. I’m going crazy because I’m resentful. I’m telling you to turn back the time because it’s such a waste of two years. How do you turn back the time? I don’t want to go back. I spent my early 20s, which will never happen again, and it’s crazy that I’m in my mid-20s. Even if you’re dead, I don’t care about calling again. I told you not to change my number.
(10)After that, I calculated that my monthly salary in the army was about 500,000 won, and my son
(11)I don’t smoke, so I don’t like snacks, so I barely spent that money and collected 18 pieces, so it’s about 700 to 800.
(12)for months
(13)And my son worked part-time before he went to the army.
(14)I think there were about 100 to 200 of them. 10 million
(15)It’s like collecting about one won and leaving the house.
(16)It’s been about a year and a half since we lost contact. How…
(17)I found his account. I’m just curious if you contact me through Instagram, so I’ll learn how to do Instagram from my daughter.
(18)I don’t know this year, but I feel like I got a job after graduating, and I went to play, and I’ve been looking at only the pictures, and what they’re doing.
(19)I think I’m doing well. I’ll tell you later, not the post.
(20)If there’s a record of who watched the story,
(21)I didn’t know. Maybe my son noticed after that, but his account was empty.
(22)It’s been released.
(23)I could’ve gone to the army, but was it such a big mistake to send him away?
(24)I shouldn’t have let him go. I’m thinking about one thing, and that’s what happens to my husband.
(25)They’re asking why you’re sending me to do this while crying.
(26)Hani’s husband just wants to live without a son. How…
(27)Should I?
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