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(1)My 7-year-old daughter’s behavior gives me goosebumps
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(5)I’m the mother of a 34-year-old child
(6)As a mother, it could be irresponsible or wrong to say this But now I’m scared, and I’m embarrassed to say anything, so I’m writing down a few words with anonymous power
(7)The first time I felt she was weird was three years ago
(8)I always take care of my husband’s breakfast, but that day, we both slept in, so I was cutting bread to give him a sandwich But a child who couldn’t wake up even if he woke up a lot in the morning got up and followed me around that day
(9)I was cutting the bread, and he sat next to me and he was watching me cut it Then he asked me what it was
(10)So I said bread, and my mom asked me what I was holding in my hand instead of bread, so I said knife without thinking There’s no way he doesn’t know about Carl, but I wondered why he asked
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(1)I was wondering why you asked
(2)But while I turned to the fridge to get the ham out for a second, the kid was fiddling with the knife
(3)I freaked out and told him not to touch a knife because it’s sharp and hurts He nodded and stayed still
(4)When the groom came to work, I took a breather and thought about what to do today It happened to be the day I went grocery shopping
(5)I had breakfast with my kid and went to the mart at 11 He seemed excited
(6)I was passing through the toy section at the mart, and like any other child, he stopped in front of the toy and asked me to buy it. When I saw it, there was a similar toy at home and it was too expensive, so I said let’s just go And then he just walked away If it was like usual, I would have done a lot of things, but I just recorded it
(7)I came home and I was taking out my utensils to prepare lunch, and suddenly he came running and sat down at the table and stared at me So I asked him why and he didn’t say anything
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(1)I took out the vegetables and wiped them from the sink without thinking about it, and suddenly, around the calves
(2)It stings my teeth I was surprised when I looked down He was sitting there with a knife, stabbing me in the calf
(3)I was so angry and surprised that I raised my voice Calm down soon. My mom taught me that I had to get sick. I asked her why she was playing with it
(4)Yes, mom
(5)He smiled so brightly
(6)At the time, I thought it was just like that He told me not to do that again
(7)But since then, whenever I didn’t point something out to my child or listen to what he wanted, he’d put a knife on me
(8)He was a picky eater, so he put up kimchi to eat evenly. When he ate fruit, he drew my hand with a knife
(9)I was sick, but I kept running away without taking medicine, so I forced myself to catch him and gave him medicine And I woke up that night because it felt weird
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(1)He’s sitting at the bedside with a knife
(2)I was so surprised and scared that I asked him what he was doing, and he put it down with a smile and went straight into his blanket
(3)There are already a lot of things like this
(4)Every time I get angry, and I’ve explained dozens of times that this is really dangerous, and I keep doing that, so I hid the knife out of sight He hid all the knives, including the knife and the razor, but from then on he said they were dangerous
(5)But he doesn’t do that to his dad
(6)Sometimes the groom scolds the child, so when I asked the groom later, he said he never did that to himself
(7)Why is it just me
(8)It’s really creepy and scary At this point
(9)I don’t know if that’s the one I gave birth to
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(1)I got goosebumps last week
(2)My child went to kindergarten, and he seemed to have a boy he liked in kindergarten. When he got home, he kept talking about him and the kindergarten teacher told me that they were hanging out together in kindergarten, so I thought he was all grown up
(3)But one day, a kid came to me and asked me
(4)Mom, the knife hurts a lot
(5)Yes, it hurts a lot if you get hurt with a knife
(6)I can’t even go to kindergarten
(7)then
(8)I didn’t miss this moment, so I thought my daughter wouldn’t touch the knife anymore
(9)She’s smiling again
(10)And the next day, I got a call from the kindergarten She’s a different girl
(11)He hurt his teeth with a knife
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(1)There was a cooking class at the kindergarten Because we’re (G)I-DLE
(2)She gave me a blunt knife so that I wouldn’t hit her, and she cut the fruit for the salad, and she cut another girl’s arm with that knifeIt’s more like that’s it
(3)Fortunately, it was a blunt knife, so I didn’t get hurt much, and the kindergarten teachers seemed to think it was just an accident, but I got goosebumps because I knew what my child usually did to me First of all, I called the injured child’s mother and apologized
(4)And as soon as she got home, she asked me why I did it. I was joking around and asked if I did it, and she was so innocent
(5)No, on purpose
(6)He said, “Honestly, I had a certain expectation, and I think I need to hear the reason, and I asked him why
(7)The girl who hurt Siyoung keeps playing with the boy who likes Jinwoo
(8)That’s what he said
(9)I got goosebumps
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(1)Am I weird
(2)Is that something a 7-year-old girl can do
(3)If you get hurt with a knife, you may not be able to leave kindergarten Is this why I asked you that
(4)Should I go to a child consultation center
(5)Am I sensitive
(6)Now I feel strange when I see him
(7)Please give me some advice Mothers
(8)A must-have item for autumn!
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(1)I’m the mother who posted about her 7-year-old daughter’s behavior 4 years agoOO 20180117 2203
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(4)I’ve seen the posts I posted before still floating around At the time, it was so hard and I didn’t know, so I posted it as if I was holding onto a straw, but some people said so many harsh things, so I put it down
(5)I was really hurt back then, but now that I think about it, I think I would have felt that way I was scared even if it was my child, but I wondered what it would be like for those who are completely alone
(6)Everyone was wondering how she’s losing nowIt’s been 3 years and I’ve seen the comments still running
(7)I was so hurt that I thought I wouldn’t upload it again, but a lot of people are still getting goosebumps because of my child. I’m scaredI can’t let him go to school I saw you talking about things like that, so I came here to share what you’ve been up to you
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(1)Please refrain from making bad comments this timeㅜㅜ
(2)First of all, I went to the Child Development Center It’s stupid, but I went to a famous place with a mother’s heart, and I went to a small place because I was afraid my daughter’s new identity would be revealed
(3)We did this and that, and we had an interview with my daughter and I The answer was that you should go to a psychiatrist instead of a development center
(4)Other intelligence and physical developments were all normal I wasn’t at all happy at the time that the top 2 percent of the people in the language were supposed to be good, but now that I think about it, I’m grateful for that’s all
(5)He went to a mental hospital I heard there’s a place where you can study psychology. So I went there It wasn’t a place where there was a child psychiatrist, but I found out by searching for information in various communities
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(1)After weeks of consultation and tests, the doctor’s diagnosis was half
(2)Social personality disorder and behavior disorder
(3)To put it simply, he said he’s close to the psychopath you were talking about
(4)He’s a little surprised that it’s rare for him to show this tendency even though he’s still young, but when he was young, he said it’s much better to start treatment It’s really hard to change your personality and judgment in adolescence
(5)In the case of her daughter, the reason for her antisocial behavior is not her impulsive or instinctive lack of control, but her lack of empathyThere’s a very clear motive for violent behavior
(6)I tested my empathy My teacher interviewed my daughter And the results were less empathetic than the girls of their age It’s okay to say that there’s almost none
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(1)I know he’s gonna get sick if you hit him, but that’s it
(2)You don’t know why you shouldn’t hit him
(3)He said that repetitive learning is important You should never appeal to emotional factors, and you should repeatedly tell them why this behavior is socially unacceptable. If you appeal to emotional factors, your daughter can’t sympathize at all, so the gap between your innate ideas and your social beliefs can worsen
(4)Don’t hit people -> X because they are sick
(5)You shouldn’t hit people -> If that happens, you’ll go to jail O
(6)They say that even if it looks hard like this, it can’t be helped. You have to put basic good and evil in your head like you memorize it in a textbook
(7)I talked about my husband The child who used to put a knife to me often told me that he didn’t do it to his husband, and I wondered if he did it instinctively because he knew the advantage
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(1)It’s not a matter of strength, it’s just that he doesn’t provide a cause
(2)He said he didn’t have any motivation For a seven-year-old child, her husband and I are superior to her in terms of physical strength, and she has little reason to do so, distinguishing between the two Maybe I’m a housewife, and my husband always comes home late, and my baby’s like that, so discipline was up to me I guess it was because of that
(3)And he asked me if I had a second thought, so I said I don’t know, and I heard that it’s better not to have one
(4)At a time of strong possessive interest toward parents, once the younger brother is motivated by jealousy, he can predict what his daughter, who is far superior in power, will do, and it will be difficult to raise a daughter in reality
(5)But hopefully, antisocial personality disorder often improves with age Rather than developing empathy, social discipline seems to be learned, so you can live normally, especially in the case of your daughter, she is intelligent, so there is a high possibility that you will not have a problem once you adapt to society
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(1)At first, it felt like my heart was falling apart The problem is, on the problem is
(2)No, it won’t affect my daily life It sounded like the fact that she wasn’t going to cause any trouble was far from a normal, happy life I think that’s what she actually meant, and in the end, she thought she couldn’t have emotional things through communication and interaction with others for the rest of her life, such as general emotional love and friendship, but she didn’t She’s just not empathetic, she’s full of emotions and she’s very affectionate, and I was wondering what that was all about, and she doesn’t feel the need to empathize emotionally with someone outside of her interest, but it’s not just about the person she likes Some patients with a lack of empathy are hopeful, and some have no affection at all So it’s very helpful to learn social norms by comparing them to those who grow a little and have affection from childhood
(3)And no one can say for sure in this area. Usually, antisocial personality disorder is a genetic effect or an innate problem in the frontal lobe, and it’s rare for empathy to form naturally as it grows, so let’s wait and see
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(1)But the only thing that’s going to happen is that it’s case
(2)I looked up and found that many of the psychopaths often hide their tendencies and lead normal lives, but you’re not a husband I guess I’m sensitive about my daughterSometimes I feel bad for my husband since I got to know himㅜㅜ
(3)Anyway, it’s been a total war ever since, and I don’t know why, but at some point, my daughter, who was following me well, started complaining that she wouldn’t do it, and she got angry I couldn’t take him in the beginning because I was afraid he’d force me to take him, but I ended up dragging him
(4)I did what the doctor told me to do I taught him everything from sitting down to hitting people, not abusing animals, not throwing away trash, not picking plants
(5)Like you said, the kid doesn’t care about his feelings at all
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(1)You can’t stab people
(2)It hurts when you get stabbed. My daughter doesn’t like it. She doesn’t like it either
(3)He doesn’t like it. Why can’t I do it? I just said it
(4)I couldn’t stop myself
(5)At first, she just nodded or asked why
(6)He refutes logically after entering elementary school
(7)You can’t hit people
(8)In my country, it’s made by law. Then my daughter will be in prison
(9)I can go to
(10)The next answer is
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(1)Then it’s okay if you don’t get caught by the police
(2)I felt that it wasn’t easy. I cried a lot that day It wasn’t easy to admit that our daughter was different If it’s just a physical disability or a matter of intelligence, she’s not wrong, she’s different I wouldn’t say it was special, but she was more of a socially wrong personI tried my best not to break down I held out thinking that I was the only one who could make this child live in the world
(3)She definitely loves me and her husband. She’s afraid that someone she thinks is precious hates her I changed the way It’s not that I’m hurting you, but if my daughter does that, my mom and dad are upset
(4)At this point, I think a lot of people are curious about what my husband did, but he won’t read this Honestly, I’ve done most of the discipline, and my husband’s love for his daughter was the reason, but there was one thing that was crucial, and after that, I just compromised on doing my child’s education
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(1)What happened was that my husband’s hobby is rcca. I don’t know much about it
(2)I’ve only seen my husband do it a few times My husband doesn’t really like drinking and he doesn’t play games, so it’s actually his only hobby I spend about 30,000 won to 400,000 won a month, and I have a lot of affection. When I joined the club, CafeZ, and when my daughter was 8 years old, she pinched my friend a lot at school He said he was angry because a boy in his class kept pulling his daughter’ Honestly, I thought it was self-defense, but I apologized to the parents because I was in a position to be careful My husband knew that and he scolded her But the next day, while my husband was at work, my daughter poured a lot of juice into my husband’s rc car. It’s not a cheap model, so I heard it’s more than 600,000 won if I add up all the parts My husband, who knew that, couldn’t control his anger and slapped his daughter If it was an ordinary child, I would have thought that my husband couldn’t hold his anger and hit him, but since I hit my unstable daughter, I was worried that it would affect her emotions in the future, so I decided to discipline herInstead, my husband’s housework has increased a bit Originally, I’m a housewife, so I did all the housework on weekends, but after I’m in charge of the child’s discipline, my husband cleans all the laundry on weekends. This part is agreed upon and promised, so please don’t mention it
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(1)It got a lot easier after I went to school My daughter is going to school
(2)I really liked how it looked, and after that, it became easier to explain good and evil
(3)I brought a handsome boy as my boyfriend or a bunch of friends home After that, she said that if she did that, her friends would hate you You don’t want to be alone. You nod when I say daughter
(4)He changed the way he controls his anger from the beginning In order to keep the violent tendencies out of the way, neither my husband nor I have spoken out in front of my daughter since the RCCA incident
(5)The daughter, who turned 11 this year in 2018, did not cause any problems at school except a few small fights, whether she recognized her mom and dad’s efforts or realized it herself Not yet. They say they have good friendshipTo brag about it, he’s a great student. He reads a lot of books. He’s a representative of the competition
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(1)If you’re still in trouble, you’ll be able to tell a lie that’s easy to find out and the pain of others
(2)There are parts that I can’t relate to, but I think it’s the result of my hard work We still have a long way to go
(3)I think I should just tell you what I’ve been up to. I’m so thankful for everyone who was worried and scared. I’m sorry for those who were scared. I’ll work harder so that it doesn’t happen
(4)Thank you for reading the long comment
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(1)I can see that you’re working hard But you must have had a hard time어머니 I support your daughter to grow into a pretty and wonderful child so that the mother’s efforts are not wasted. She’s really cool Haha
(2)I looked up the previous post and I read this review I’m curious if I could find out about it through reviews I’m rather afraid of your daughter, because the smarter she is, the brighter the future, and the higher the likelihood of a total crime But I think my mother is wise and tries hard, so I want to cheer for her It takes a little bit of heredity, so please carefully observe the level of your husband’s hand-wringing and cheer up. I won’t forget to wait for your review even in the next few years
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