The discomfort of a multi-child family felt by parents with three children

I’m already in the position of having three children, so I’m laying on the fact that my thoughts and feelings can be very different

It doesn’t come to me that I can’t have children because I don’t have money

If you look around, there are houses that earn so much that you don’t think there is an absolute connection to economic power, and there are houses that don’t earn much, but there are houses that give birth to a lot

What I feel is that there are a lot of people who will give birth anyway Of course, it’s very small in terms of proportion

But the fertility rate will rebound only when a single family, which accounts for the largest proportion, has more than that

What I feel while raising multiple children is that the whole country is preventing multiple births with its whole body

There are many inconveniences in the hot spring area, even though I don’t know what kind of support benefits I’ll give

Hotels, motels, pensions, and even campsites mostly have at least two people and a maximum of four people. Why are there alternative campsites

Just looking at restaurants and other places, most stores have tables these days, but my family of five has no choice but to use two tables and sit there only if there is a seat that does not cause inconvenience to people’s mobility or corner

There is no such seat, so if you sit at two tables, the owners of the restaurant are not looking good. Even if there are two people, we have to sit at one table, but why do we have to feel such inconvenience

I heard that there are benefits because they are multi-child families, such as daycare centers, kindergartens, and schools, but multicultural families are the top priority, and you have to fill all the seats there to return to your children

To be honest, I understand that single-parent families are in a position where they have no choice but to earn only one income, so of course, the top priority is right

However, it is questionable why a multicultural family with only one child takes all the benefits first

I’m not giving birth to a child hoping for support or benefits, but in a situation where the birth rate is smashed like this, I think it’s okay to have another family that will have another child

Most of the inconveniences of multi-child families are, in fact, that the state has to make policy improvements

I believe that such things can be implemented only when businesses, including self-employed people, can escape the burden of benefits or support that multi-child families will receive

For example, when a multi-child family makes a pension reservation, if evidence is confirmed, they upgrade to a larger room, but the local government or state subsidizes the additional cost, or the state pays for it with a few discounts on communication costs

The children are still middle school and elementary school students, so I don’t think of anything more than that, but I think there should be at least things that feel uncomfortable about having a lot of children

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