Marriage and parenting are the least attractive options of our time

(1)In our time, getting married, having children, and raising them
(2)It became a very unattractive option If you just turn on SNS right away
(3)All kinds of shorts, reels, all kinds of commercials have been giving us every day
(4)I’m going to stack up my bucket list Going to Santorini, Greece for a night, living in Chiang Mai for a month, or seeing the Milky Way in Mongolia or the aurora in Norway, as if money is spent, not on getting married, having children and raising children
(5)In reality, young people think that they need to have a stable residential environment to have children and raise them But you can live a stable life without being chased every two or four years and without despair due to jeonse fraud
(6)Under the pressure that the residential environment is a billion-won apartment
(7)It will take 30 years for a dual-income couple to tighten their belts and raise 30 million won a year unless the two families provide 300 million won each
(8)Even if you have a child, what you can imagine is that you will be blindsided by the no-kids zone, and every time you get on a train or plane, and when you grow up, you will be forced into private education competition from English kindergarten I don’t know if I have a child, but if I think about my future plans a little more specifically, I can quickly see that it’s not easy for me to jump into this. Of course
(9)It may be different if there is enough material and dedicated support from both families
(10)Instead, I’m going to build up my bucket list on the other side
(11)It seems like living a much wiser life to make it happen one by one. It seems much better to travel to the three Baltic countries and live in Bali and Da Nang for a month than to spend 30 years suffering from apartment debt and throwing your child into private education competition hellConsidering the cost of raising children, you can travel abroad every year and buy one Chanel bag, even if you don’t have children. That can feel like a much closer life
(12)This means that our society no longer works at all as long as two existing couples work together to start in a studio apartment, have two children, and gradually expand their homes and create one complete family That ideal is literally over Furthermore, even if the generation actually lived that way, it did not prove that there was happiness at the end of it Many adults say they live together because they can’t die and advise you not to live like your mom and dad
(13)If our society goes to war with the low birth rate or total fertility rate, it means it has to fight the collapse of existing ideals and the birth of numerous other ideals bucketists There’s no point in saying that you can somehow raise a child if you work hard and live a life of scrambling and stir-frying. It’s not the problem that you can do that, but because there’s no reason to go that far and have children and raise them
(14)Then at least our society must convince us that having and raising children is not only possible in life but also the most attractive option when it comes to this issue It’s your choice to walk around the world, but if you give birth and raise a child, the country should step up and give you the signal to invite you to the most attractive life Stable career tax incentives The happiness of children without murderous competition The resulting happiness of families The youth will not turn their backs again if the state does not guarantee its attractiveness to the long-term prospects of stable life
(15)Existing extreme competition and the resulting succession culture that drives people away and encourages relative deprivation, as well as a stable living environment that has become practically inaccessible and a lack of quality jobs, have been comprehensively established, and marriage and childcare are now the most unattractive options in Korea It will be virtually impossible to dispel this completed despair that has been built up by society for many years. Nevertheless, it should be seen that the last key to the solution is still the state losing
(16)Give the lads everything and turn their backs on them
(17)There are only two options, whether it is going to decline as it is